Herpes 11

My gf and I have been dating for about 1 1 / 2 years and recently she had a primary outbreak of HSV-1 genital herpes. I have never shown any symptoms of any herpes (no sores, rashes not weird or anything. Aphthae at worst, which is not even herpes.) I know she has not cheated on me and I did not press her.

Obviously it's me at this point based on the calendar, but there is that chance SLIM he was one of his ex, but probably not. The kicker is that we had problems in the relationship before that happens and I never feel like it was a big deal. Transmission of infection to very low genital HSV-1 and I must have given to it by oral sex.

The problem is that I am unhappy in the relationship and do not feel that is the "one" or me. I feel an immense sense of guilt, frustration and the obligation to stay and somehow everything always works for her. Is leaving not even a human right or do something after this lie that is probably your fault?

How can I live with that? ... Or maybe my happiness is zero at this point.

oh ok if you gave HSV1 genital herpes, and now you want to leave because you're afraid to do, I suppose? Why are you not satisfied with the relationship before you gave him oral? I think its too bad that contracting HIV from your bf without them tell you about it.

the answer below, yes I read his question. He felt guilty for giving her herpes HSV1 GF gen and it somehow satisfied with the relationship and felt the need to start and end before it goes down the drain.

"Leave no right of man or do something after this lie that is probably your fault?"

Is leaving not even the right man to do after something like this is probably your fault?

He felt ill and wanted to leave. Its like saying I have HIV and sorry, but I leave you bye. It would have just left if it does not feel like it wasn't working relationship, not just after infecting his GF. Its like saying "Oh shit, I was infected, well, it gives me a better excuse to go now"

and I suppose its possible it could be one of his ex, but he could be sure it is not uncommon to have no symptoms, I suggest yo to check anyway, if your girlfriend 's has not already, she should see a doctor as avoiding intercourse during a break and use a condom at other times

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If my boyfriend gave me herpes, then dumped me ...
I would hire a hitman.
You my not be happy, but you gave her herpes *******!
You think she is happy?

You better be glad it was her and not me ..

My throat would be cut your n fxck * If you gave me genital herpes and then try to leave ..? you are a dog and I hope karma bites you so fast, you'd better think twice!

My God, do you answer people actually read his question? Fools give advice and be mean and you do not even read it.

Getting help

It is beautiful, although herpes sucks. ar you going to die. 3 to 8 Australians it and most do not even know they have it. His pain and painful, but really not much. If you have a break just go to the doc and get anti viral drugs.

If you feel really guilty going to a counselor sseriouslyits allowed to ask for help.

and

your girlfriend will find someone else ddon'tfeel guilty, she oobviouslyknew you had known and the risk of transmission. It was a risk she was willing to take

You'll never be happy if you live for someone else to make them happy.

Indulge

If you are not satisfied with the relationship, you have to act on this, and do not stay because you feel guilty, you IVG.